There are some simple rules I am firm on when making time for clientele.
I consider them basic courtesy.
To break any of these rules is to terminate your session and forfeit your
payment.
This is not negotiable.
Be direct and clear when expressing your interests and your limits.
I do not play with safewords as I demand an authentic experience for both of us. This requires that we engage in a thorough and detailed negotiation process prior to our appointment so that when it is time for our session it may be as seamless, enjoyable and real as possible.
Look at my How to Book an Appointment page for your options regarding how to negotiate our session.
Be clean and well-groomed
Be courteous
Be punctual - and be mindful of the fact that arriving early is just as inconvenient for me as arriving late.
We set specific appointment times for a reason
Do not wear aftershave or any other artificial fragrances.
I find most commercial fragrances offensive and you don't wish to offend me.
Do not use foul language or make any lewd comments.
Do not ask for sexual favours
Do not attempt to touch me in an untoward fashion.
Do not engage in passive-aggressive behaviour in an attempt to receive more
pain - what some refer to as "punishment".
This only serves to offend me and will terminate our session.
If you want or need more pain simply ask politely.
I will assure you now, however, that the need for this is not likely.
While gifts are not a requiremement they are most certainly appreciated as they are a gesture of how much you value my time and your being allowed to share in it.
Have a look at my Wish List page for inspiration if you feel so moved.
A particularly respectful and appreciative client will be mindful of this.
Surrender to the experience - you get out of the session what you put in.
Be mindful of the fact my time is precious to me.
I find it far more efficient to negotiate sessions via email, but if you feel the need to do this over the phone and know this will require a considerable amount of time with which to do so, kindly call me on my consultation line (the "Call Me Now" link posted below) so I may be compensated for this time.
This shows consideration on your part.