About Me
I
am Ms. Marina Black and I am a FemDomme Fetshist.
There is a poetry, art and grace that speaks to me within the worlds of FemDomme
and Fetish.
I have
recently been aiming to get into fetish artistic expression - photography,
video and writing - but have much to learn.
I feel my vision is unique as I am, in all truth, a FemDomme living the life
authentically.
I am a semi-pro
Dominatrix (I only accept exceptional clients for exceptional scenes), body
piercer, aromatologist, Priestess, co-organizer of the Le Salon private fetish
event and am breaking into writing and film making within the FemDomme genre.
I was born in Montreal, Canada – under the Western star sign Sagittarius
(Virgo rising) to Portuguese parents.
English is not my first language - I was taught Portuguese
in the family home and didn't begin learning English until I started school.
I was in ESL (English as a Second Language) classes for the first 3 years
of school. After that I was consistently at the top of all my classes and
excelled academically.
Subject matter that has moved me deeply since I learned to read has included the arts, history, archaeology, mysiticism,mythology, ritual (I am an initiated Priestess), social anthropology (I studied this at The University of Toronto), fashion (I studied fashion design and pattern drafting at George Brown College in Toronto), World Religions, Human Rights, parapsychology, metaphysics, alternative healing (I studied Phytotherapy at the Institute of Aromatherapy with Jan Benham in Toronto) - among many other things.
The world
of BDSM has drawn me for as long as I can remember. I recall coming across
a pornography magazine at the age of 7, where I encountered an article written
by a man who was describing a recent visit to a London-based Dominatrix. I
was fascinated. I will never forget a passage in which he described this lab-coat
attired woman carefully filing her nails into sharp points – which she
later used to torture his cock and balls. To this day, CBT is one of my favourite
BDSM activities.
The aesthetic of the BDSM world has always attracted me and I have been “dressing
the part” since in my early teens. I was firmly entrenched in the goth-punk
scene at that age and bdsm attire was de rigeur at that time. One fateful
day, at the age of 16, two escorts at a nightclub approached me. They asked
me if I would be available as a Dominatrix for their submissive clientele.
Although
I had no real clue as to what the work entailed, I agreed to Domme professionally
for them. At that age I was only aware of the cliché “Bitch Dom”
role and suspect I played it well, but it wasn’t real. I soon discovered,
however, a real interest in BDSM – a sense that this is really ME -
and started doing some research. To excel as a Domme and explore the art of
this role was a real goal.
I have a real love of BDSM and it is far easier to describe what I AM into
vs. what I am NOT into. As a true Sadistic Domme, my preferences lie within
what most would call "heavier" action, however I will happily engage
in "lighter" scenes as long as there is real service involved. I
love being in control.
I have been a body piercer by trade since late 1992. Part of my training included learning about cross-contamination controls and I have my own autoclave (a sterlization device that employs both extreme heat and pressure to completely sterlize medical instruments). It goes to follow that I am very much into medical scenes and am more than qualified to perform what may be considered "high risk" scenes safely.I taught a bloodsports workshop for SM201 via the AIDS Committe of Toronto in the late 90s.
The journey into BDSM that began for me over 23 years ago continues and it thrills me more and more. Full immersion in the BDSM lifestyle is the only option for a woman like me. Anything else is nothing short of alien and insincere. I am a lifestyle Domme.
I have recently started up a FemDomme website (June 2006). Should you read this site, you will learn much more about me as a FemDomme and my opinions on the subject. Do have a look at TrueFemDomme.